How to Prioritize Self-Care with a Newborn
Welcoming a baby into the world is a joyous and exhilarating experience! It brings significant changes and adjustments to new parents' lives. Changes, of course, present challenges, one of the main ones being prioritizing self-care.
With the demands of feeding, diaper changes, sleepless nights, and constant attention, new parents may find little to no time to take care of themselves. However, self-care is crucial for the health of both the parents and the baby. So how can you prioritize caring for yourself?
Understanding the Importance of Self-Care
Why is self-care even important? In the early stages of parenthood, you want to feel your best in order to parent the best. Self-care isn't just about pampering yourself, it encompasses physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Proper self-care helps with maintaining energy levels for caring for the newborn, managing stress to reduce risk for burnout, and setting a positive example for your child as they grow.
Self-Care Strategies for New Parents
1. Prioritize Sleep
Sleep deprivation is the most common stressor with having a newborn. Although getting a full eight hours may be unrealistic, there are still ways to improve the quality of sleep you are getting.
Sleeping when the baby sleeps can help you catch up on rest throughout the day. That way, when you wake up in the middle of the night to change or feed your newborn, you will not be as tired.
Share the nighttime duties. When the baby wakes at night, take turns with your partner or a trusted family member on who goes to check on them.
Create a restful environment by having your bedroom be cool, dark, comfortable, and relaxing. Avoid harsh lights or distractions that may keep you awake, such as television or cellphones.
2. Body Nourishment
It's important to maintain proper nutrition and personal hygiene for overall health.
Try to eat three balanced meals a day that include a variety of essential nutrients, including fruits, vegetables, protein, and whole grains.
Stay hydrated and drink plenty of water throughout the day, especially if you are a breastfeeding parent.
Healthy snacks between mealtimes like yogurt, nuts, and veggies can help keep energy levels up for baby care.
3. Stay Active
It's okay if you are not heading to the gym daily. Be kind to yourself, especially after birthing a newborn, and do gentle physical activity.
Take short walks around the neighborhood or a park with the baby in a stroller. It can boost your mood and energy levels.
Postpartum exercise classes are designed for new mothers and can help provide exercise without placing too much strain on the body.
At home workouts can allow you to go at your own pace while your baby either naps or plays. It can be a great way to start exercising again after birth.
4. Take Time for Relaxation
Taking time to relax can help with the stress that comes with parenthood.
Just breathe. Take a few moments to yourself to control your breath and calm your mind.
Mediation or relaxation yoga is good for physical exercise while also promoting a more positive mindset. It only takes a few minutes!
Do relaxing activities like taking a bubble bath, reading, listening to music, or simply just sitting outside.
5. Connect with Others
As new parents, it's important to find social networks that can provide emotional support and practical advice.
Join parent groups around the community. Support groups like this can be a place of comfort where you provide and seek advice from other new parents.
Stay in touch with friends and family. Having a baby does not mean you need to cut off ties with loved ones. If you need extra help, your friends and family will be there.
Seek professional support from a mental health professional. Women’s therapists can help the overwhelming feelings of having a newborn and learning to prioritize self-care into a daily routine.